Do Delay Sprays Work? The Truth About Lasting Longer in Bed

Everything you need to know about delay sprays, who they are for, and how they work.

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by The Promescent Team Last updated 08/20/2025
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A Common Concern for Many Men

If you’ve ever felt frustrated about finishing too soon during sex, you’re far from alone. Premature ejaculation (PE) affects millions of men—often leading to stress, embarrassment, and strain in relationships. It’s one of the most common male sexual health concerns, but thankfully, it’s also one of the most treatable.

Among the many solutions available, delay sprays have become a go-to option for men looking to take back control in the bedroom. You’ve probably seen them online or at your local pharmacy—promising to help you “last longer” or “extend performance.” But do they actually work? Are they safe? And how do you use them correctly?

In this guide, we’ll break down what delay sprays are, how effective they really are, and who can benefit most from them. We aim to help you feel informed and empowered to make the right choice for your sexual health—without shame, stigma, or guesswork.

What Are Delay Sprays?

Delay sprays are topical products designed to help men last longer during sex by reducing sensitivity in the penis. They’re usually formulated with mild anesthetics like lidocaine or benzocaine, which temporarily numb the skin to decrease overstimulation.

The idea is simple: by slightly dulling sensation, you gain more control over your arousal and delay ejaculation. This can be especially helpful for men who experience premature ejaculation or just want to prolong intimacy with a partner.

How They Work

Once applied, the active ingredient in the spray is absorbed into the skin—typically taking effect within 5 to 10 minutes. The result? Less sensitivity without a complete loss of pleasure. The goal isn’t to eliminate feeling but to make it more manageable.

Sprays vs. Creams vs. Wipes

  • Sprays: Fast-drying, easy to apply, often with targeted absorption.
  • Creams: Thicker consistency, may take longer to absorb and risk more transfer to a partner.
  • Wipes: Convenient for travel and pre-measured, but sometimes less potent than sprays.

Delay sprays are generally over-the-counter and easy to incorporate into your routine—but not all are created equal. Quality and absorption technology can make a big difference in how effective and discreet they are.

Do Delay Sprays Actually Work? What the Science Says

The short answer? Yes—when used correctly, delay sprays can be very effective for many men. Clinical studies and real-world use both support their ability to help men last longer in bed by reducing penile sensitivity.

What the Research Shows

Most delay sprays use lidocaine or benzocaine—mild anesthetics that have been studied for decades. Research has shown that men using these topical treatments can experience a significant increase in intravaginal ejaculation latency time (IELT)—in some cases, lasting 2 to 3 times longer than without it.

One study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that men using a lidocaine-based spray reported improved sexual satisfaction, greater control over ejaculation, and less personal distress.

Why It Works for Many (But Not All)

The numbing effect helps by lowering hypersensitivity in the nerve endings of the penis, allowing for better control. However, results can vary depending on:

  • The severity of premature ejaculation
  • Skin sensitivity and absorption rate
  • Timing and technique of application
  • Emotional or psychological factors also contributing to early climax

It’s Not a Cure—But It’s a Reliable Tool

It’s important to remember that delay sprays don’t “fix” the root causes of PE, especially if they’re psychological or deeply physiological. But they can offer a practical, fast-acting solution for men who need immediate support—and that’s a big win for confidence and connection in the bedroom.

How to Use Delay Sprays for Best Results

Using a delay spray might seem straightforward, but there are a few key tips that can make all the difference in how well it works—and how comfortable the experience is for both you and your partner.

Step-by-Step Instructions

  1. Apply 5–10 minutes before sex: Spray directly onto the most sensitive areas of the penis—typically the underside near the head (glans) and shaft.
  2. Start with 3 sprays to start: You can always adjust based on your personal sensitivity. More isn’t always better.
  3. Wait for it to absorb: Let it sit for 5-10 minutes to fully absorb into the skin. Some products, like Promescent’s Delay Spray, use advanced absorption tech to speed this up.
  4. Wipe off any excess: Gently blot with a tissue or damp cloth to remove any residue. This helps reduce transfer to your partner.
  5. Ready when you are: Once it’s absorbed, you’re good to go—no need to wash off completely unless directed by the product.

 

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Tips for Better Results

  • Test it solo first to gauge how it feels and how much you need.
  • Communicate with your partner—letting them know you’re using a delay spray can reduce anxiety and enhance intimacy.
  • Pair with a condom if you're concerned about numbing transfer.

Are There Any Side Effects?

Most men tolerate delay sprays well, but potential side effects can include:

  • Mild tingling or numbness that lasts longer than expected
  • Skin irritation (rare)
  • Numbing of your partner if transfer occurs. Promescen’t Delay Spray is unique, in that it won’t transfer, if applied correctly.

If you or your partner experience persistent discomfort or irritation, discontinue use and consult a healthcare provider.

Who Should (and Shouldn’t) Use Delay Sprays?

Delay sprays can be a helpful tool for many men—but they’re not a one-size-fits-all solution. Understanding who benefits most (and who might want to consider alternatives) can help you use them wisely and effectively.

Ideal Candidates for Delay Sprays

  • Men with mild to moderate premature ejaculation: If you find yourself climaxing sooner than you’d like, especially within the first couple of minutes of penetration, a delay spray may help extend the experience.
  • Men seeking better control: Even if you don’t have clinical PE, you might want to slow things down and align more closely with your partner’s pace.
  • Couples wanting to explore longer intimacy: Many couples use delay sprays to boost mutual satisfaction and reduce performance pressure.

Who Should Use Caution or Consult a Doctor First

  • Men with known allergies to lidocaine, benzocaine, or similar anesthetics
  • Those experiencing erectile dysfunction (ED): Numbing the penis could complicate arousal or firmness for some men.
  • Anyone with skin conditions or open sores in the genital area
  • Partners who are pregnant or highly sensitive to topical agents

If you’re unsure, a quick chat with a healthcare provider can help you determine whether delay sprays are safe and appropriate for your needs.

Not a Long-Term Cure—But a Helpful Aid

While delay sprays can dramatically improve your sexual confidence and stamina, they aren’t a cure for deeper physical or emotional causes of PE. Think of them as a reliable support tool—not a permanent fix.

Alternative or Complementary Solutions

While delay sprays offer quick, effective relief, they work best when paired with a well-rounded approach to sexual health. If you’re looking for long-term improvement or want to enhance results, consider combining your use of delay sprays with these additional strategies.

1. Behavioral Techniques

  • Start-Stop Method: Pause stimulation just before climax, then resume once the sensation decreases.
  • Squeeze Technique: Apply pressure to the penis near the tip when you’re close to ejaculation—this helps reduce arousal and reset your timing.
  • Kegel Exercises: Strengthening the pelvic floor muscles can improve ejaculatory control over time.

2. Psychological and Emotional Support

  • Sex therapy or counseling: Anxiety, past trauma, or relationship stress can contribute to premature ejaculation. A therapist trained in sexual health can help identify and address root causes.
  • Mindfulness and relaxation techniques: Practicing body awareness and stress reduction can improve your ability to stay in control during sex.

3. ED Medications

While delay sprays reduce sensitivity, erectile dysfunction medications like sildenafil (Viagra) or tadalafil (Cialis) help improve blood flow and performance. Some men with both ED and PE find that combining these treatments results in better outcomes.

Promescent’s ED products offer physician-trusted options with discreet delivery—making it easy to explore what works best for your body.

4. Natural Supplements and Testosterone Boosters

  • Herbal blends like maca, ginseng, and ashwagandha may enhance libido and stamina.
  • Testosterone boosters can help if low T is contributing to sexual performance issues. Always choose clinically backed products, and consider testing your hormone levels first.

Promescent’s Delay Spray: A Trusted Choice

When it comes to delay sprays, not all formulas are created equal. That’s why many men—and healthcare professionals—turn to Promescent’s Delay Spray as a leading solution for lasting longer in bed.

What Sets It Apart

Promescent’s spray is formulated with lidocaine, a well-studied local anesthetic. But what really makes it stand out is its TargetZone™ absorption technology. This patented delivery system ensures the active ingredient is absorbed quickly and stays where it’s needed—reducing the chance of transfer to your partner.

  • Doctor-recommended and clinically tested
  • Fast-drying, mess-free formula
  • Precision spray allows you to control the dosage
  • Backed by thousands of positive reviews from real users

Discreet, Effective, and Easy to Use

Unlike some other options, Promescent’s delay spray is designed to fit seamlessly into your routine. It’s discreet, portable, and doesn’t require a prescription—though it’s trusted by urologists and sexual health experts alike.

If you’re ready to experience better control and more satisfying intimacy, Promescent’s Delay Spray is a solid, science-backed place to start.

Frequently Asked Questions

What are delay sprays and how do they work?

Delay sprays are topical solutions that reduce penile sensitivity using mild anesthetics like lidocaine or benzocaine. They help men prolong sexual activity by providing more control—without eliminating pleasure.

Do delay sprays actually work?

Yes—when used correctly, clinical evidence shows that these sprays can significantly increase time to ejaculation, helping many men last longer and experience greater satisfaction.

What makes sprays more effective than creams or wipes?

Sprays dry quickly and absorb faster, which reduces the risk of messing things up or transferring to your partner. Creams may take longer to absorb, while wipes are convenient but sometimes less potent.

How should I apply delay spray for best results?

  • Apply 5–10 minutes before intimacy.
  • Spray 3 times onto the most sensitive areas (underside and head).
  • Allow absorption, then gently blot off any residue with a tissue.
  • Start with fewer sprays and adjust based on how your body responds.

Are there side effects I should know about?

Most men tolerate delay sprays well. Some might experience mild numbness, temporary tingling, or rare skin irritation. If your partner experiences numbness, it usually means excess spray wasn’t absorbed or transferred accidentally.

Who should use delay sprays?

They’re ideal for men with mild to moderate premature ejaculation, anyone striving for better control, or couples aiming to extend intimacy. Use caution—or consult a doctor—if you have allergies to anesthetics, active erectile dysfunction, or skin conditions in the genital area.

Can I replace other methods with delay spray?

Delay sprays work best as part of a complete strategy. Techniques like the Start–Stop method, Kegels, mindfulness, therapy, or ED medications can complement sprays for long-term improvement.

How is Promescent’s delay spray different?

Promescent uses clinically tested lidocaine and innovative TargetZone™ technology for precise, fast absorption with minimal transfer. It’s user‑friendly, discreet, and supported by strong user reviews and medical guidance.

The Bottom Line: Yes, Delay Sprays Can Help—If Used Right

Premature ejaculation is more common than you might think—and so is the desire to last longer and feel more in control during sex. Delay sprays like Promescent’s offer a safe, effective, and easy-to-use option for many men looking to improve their performance and confidence.

They’re not a magic cure, but they can make a meaningful difference, especially when combined with healthy communication, behavioral strategies, and lifestyle improvements. Whether you’re just starting to explore solutions or looking to enhance your existing routine, delay sprays are a smart, science-backed choice worth considering.

At the end of the day, sexual wellness is deeply personal—but you don’t have to figure it out alone. We’re here to help you make informed choices, feel empowered, and take back control of your sexual health—without shame or pressure.

You deserve to feel confident and connected. And if a simple spray can help you get there? That’s something to feel good about.

The Promescent Team

The Promescent Team

Our team has over a decade of experience in the sexual wellness field and are experts in sexual dysfunctions, like premature ejaculation. We help couples and individuals better understand treatment options available for different types of sexual needs and educate the public on all things related to intimacy. All of our authored content is medically reviewed for accuracy and reliability.

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