Penis Sensitivity 101: Learn to Reduce Your Sensitivity in Bed

Have you been searching for how to desensitize your penis? If so, you're not alone and we can help.

Dr. Justin Lehmiller
Social Psychologist, researcher at The Kinsey Institute
by Dr. Justin Lehmiller Last updated 11/10/2022

Having a sensitive penis is a rather touchy subject, but it's more common than you may think.

It is something that many men would prefer to deal with on their own rather than to bring up to their partners, friends, or even their doctors.

Fortunately, there are solutions for dealing with a sensitive penis.

So let's touch on:

  • The most sensitive parts of the penis
  • Why your penis may be so sensitive
  • How to make your penis less sensitive

Here are the most common sexual male difficulties:

  • Premature ejaculation (PE)
  • Erectile dysfunction (ED)
  • Low libido (low sexual desire)
Common Sexual Dysfunctions in Men

Studies have shown that approximately 1 in 3 men will or have experienced symptoms of premature ejaculation.

With premature ejaculation being the most common complaint among men, it's easy to see why so many people are trying to decrease their penis sensitivity.

Having penis sensitivity issues can be distressing to men and interfere with maintaining a satisfying sex life.

Quick FAQs

The penis is one of the most densely packed areas with nerve endings that are designed to deliver pleasure.

Start first by talking to your doctor to make sure that there are no underlying medical issues but some commonly known options would be to use a topical desensitizing spray like Promescent®, try a thicker condom, or consider taking an oral medication.

Generally speaking, the most sensitive part of the penis is an area called the frenulum. This is located on the underside of the penis, where the glans (head of the penis) meet the shaft.

What Causes Penis Sensitivity?

To answer what causes penis sensitivity, we need to look at what makes some men experience increased sensitivity while others experience decreased sensitivity.

When sensitivity issues start to cause sexual problems, like premature ejaculation, how do we address them?

Here are some of the main factors that contribute to a hypersensitive penis.

1. Genetics and the brain

Some research has suggested that genetics may play a role when it comes to penile sensitivity.

If you are experiencing higher than average sensitivity, there is a good chance that this runs in your family.

2. Your anatomy

Everyone’s body is a little different in terms of how sensitive a given area is.

For example, some guys have very sensitive:

  • nipples, whereas some men don't
  • earlobes and others don't
  • nape of the neck, while some do not

The same goes for the penis.

There’s natural variability that can lead some penises to be more sensitive than others.

So what are the most sensitive parts of the penis?

The Head (Glans)

Circumcised: The head of the penis, scientifically referred to as the glans, is the mushroom-shaped tip of the penis.

Uncircumcised: For men that are not circumcised the head of the penis is covered by foreskin which can be pulled back to reveal the same mushroom tip. 

Where The Head Meets The Shaft (Frenulum) 

Circumcised: This is the spongy, elastic band of tissue that connects the shaft and glans of the penis.

Similar to how your tongue frenulum connects your tongue to the bottom of your mouth. 

Uncircumcised: Similar to the glans, the frenulum is covered by the foreskin, but when retracted, it becomes exposed.

Diagram of Penis Anatomy and Most Sensitive Areas

3. Phimosis:

This is a condition that only affects uncircumcised men.

Phimosis occurs when the foreskin is too tight and doesn’t slide freely along the shaft.

As a result, the glans or head of the penis may remain covered most or all of the time. 

This may increase the sensitivity because it’s not accustomed to receiving outside touch or stimulation.

Penile Hypersensitivity and Premature Ejaculation

Premature ejaculation (PE) is a condition in which a guy reaches climax much quicker than he would like.

Some research has found that there is a connection between an overly sensitive penis and not being able to delay orgasm.

On average, it takes most men between 4 to 7 minutes to ejaculate during intercourse, so if you’re in that time frame, you’re perfectly normal.

Why Is My Penis So Sensitive During Sex?

The penis is densely packed with nerve endings and is designed to deliver pleasure. This makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint.

However, that abundance of nerve endings in the penis isn't always a good thing; it can cause some men to get overstimulated before or during intercourse. 

This is what we call penile hypersensitivity.

When should I be concerned?

If the length of time it takes you to reach orgasm is something that distresses you or creates problems in your sex life or relationship, that’s when it becomes an issue to address.

The DSM-5 defines premature ejaculation as ejaculating within one minute during sexual intercourse.

Not being able to last for longer than one minute can potentially have adverse effects on people’s sex lives, which has the potential to lead to sexual dissatisfaction.

Penis Sensitivity Clinical Studies

So what exactly is the connection between penile hypersensitivity and premature ejaculation?

Research finds that increased sensitivity is indeed linked to premature ejaculation.

In a study of 420 men published in the journal of Scientific Reports, researchers observed that men who had either mild or severe cases of PE exhibited higher than typical levels of sensitivity in both the glans and the shafts of their penises.

The Men's Clinic at UCLA suggests that men who experience early ejaculation might want to try desensitizing their penises to help treat their symptoms.

Although some research suggests a link between penile hypersensitivity and PE, it is important to mention that not all studies have documented this association.

In a 1998 study published by the International Journal of Impotence Research, researchers using a vibrometer to measure penile sensitivity found no statistically significant difference between men with or without PE.

That study was based on a very small sample (33 men) and may not have been large enough to detect the effects.

For some men, it may be rooted in hypersensitivity; for others, however, it may have more to do with brain chemistry and neurotransmitters.

How Does Circumcision Affect Penis Sensitivity?

Circumcision is the surgical removal of the foreskin, the natural “hood” that covers the tip of the penis.

Some sources suggest that over 70 percent of all circumcised men worldwide were circumcised for religious reasons.

However, secular circumcision is often performed for health, hygiene, or cosmetic reasons.

Global Prevalance of Male Circumcision

So does circumcision affect a man’s future sexual health and pleasure?

An early study on circumcision and sensitivity conducted by Master and Johnson in 1966 found that there was "no clinically significant difference in tactile discrimination between uncircumcised and circumcised men on the ventral or dorsal surfaces of the glans penis."

On the other hand, more recent studies suggest other conclusions.

One such study suggests circumcision does seem to be related to penile sensitivity, with the authors going so far to say that:

“five locations on the uncircumcised penis that are routinely removed at circumcision were more sensitive than the most sensitive location on the circumcised penis.”

Similarly, another study that looked at sensitivity to touch and warmth among circumcised and uncircumcised men found that “the foreskin of intact men was more sensitive to tactile stimulation than the other penile sites.”

However, this research remains unsettled, and more research is needed to understand the link between circumcision and penile sensitivity.

Fortunately, there are non-surgical ways to address hypersensitivity issues, regardless of your circumcision status.

Ways to Decrease Sensitivity in the Penis

If you are dealing with penile hypersensitivity and want to do something about it, what are your options?

First, start by talking to your doctor to ensure no underlying medical issues that need immediate treatment and get recommendations tailored to your unique circumstances.

Then, consider the following options.

Important note: You may need to try more than one of these options before figuring out what works for you.

1. Change your condoms

Switching out your regular condom for one that is thicker is perhaps the quickest and easiest way to reduce penile sensitivity immediately.

Thicker condoms are often labeled "Extra Strength" or "Extra Safe."

You may also want to look at condoms that are specially made for guys who have issues with premature ejaculation, which often come with numbing gel already inside.

The brands that cater to PE have names such as:

  • Extended Pleasure
  • Delay
  • Prolong

Some men achieve the results they are looking for and are completely satisfied with these types of condoms.

However, others may find that these all-in-one condoms over-numb the area, thus creating the opposite problem: making it too difficult to climax.

2. Use a topical medication

Do you like the idea of being able to have full control of when, where, and how much of a desensitizing medication to apply?

Then consider a topical treatment like Promescent.

These desensitizers are available in multiple application methods, including:

  • Wipes
  • Sprays
  • Creams
  • Gels

Some are available only through a prescription, but you can also purchase other brands (like Promescent) over the counter.

Promescent offers several products in this category that are well-known for gently desensitizing the penis enough to allow you to last longer while still enjoying the sensation of your partner.

Just be sure to follow the directions to avoid transference to your partner, using too much or too often.

We recommend experimenting a little on your own first to find the right dose for you.

3. Consider an oral medication

Depending on the cause of your penile hypersensitivity, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), a type of antidepressant, might be another potential option.

However, you’ll need to consult with your physician about this, and it may come with a higher monthly cost and potential side effects.

While SSRIs were designed and approved to treat mood disorders, they are sometimes prescribed off-label to treat premature ejaculation.

Why is that? Because a well-known side effect of SSRIs is delayed orgasm.

Important Takeaways

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual difficulties reported by men.

It is linked to several different factors, from genetics to neurotransmitters to penile sensitivity, which suggests that other men may develop PE for very different reasons.

Because of this, some men may find that different treatment approaches work better for them.

As with all sexual health issues, there isn’t a “one-size-fits-all” solution.

If you find yourself dealing with penile hypersensitivity and premature ejaculation, the way to approach it is up to you.

Remember that your health is in your hands, so get the facts, consult with your doctor, and make the right decision for you.

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Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He is author of the blog Sex and Psychology and the popular book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. He is also a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world. Dr. Lehmiller is one of the media's go-to experts on sex and has been interviewed by The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and CNN; he has also appeared on dozens of radio, podcast, and television programs.


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