Other guys may brag, but in reality, at least one in three of the guys you know have probably missed the mark on a regular occasion when it comes to how long they last in bed.
If your penis gets carried away because you are too sensitive during sex, and you climax before your partner has time to enjoy intimacy, you can walk away feeling like a real failure.
Those insecurities can only make things worse the next time things are heating up.
Quick FAQs
According to several independent studies, yes, they work!
While every man is different two separate studies, one from 2017, and another from 2019, showed average increased ejaculation time improvements of about 300%
Typically you will get peak performance from the wipe for about 30 minutes. However men have reported feeling diminished effects for up to 90 minutes.
How to last longer in bed is probably one of the most searched phrases on Google, and understandably so.
While you can find a lot of methods to try, you may want to consider sex wipes designed to slow your roll for you without a lot of manual work.
These sex wipes contain desensitizing agents like benzocaine to lower the sensitivity levels during sex.
And, they're a quick and easy alternative to masturbating before sex or trying other methods, like the squeeze technique, to prolong your orgasm.
When used appropriately, sex wipes do work, and research has proven that fact.
A randomized, controlled trial of topical benzocaine wipes was published in The Journal of Urology in 2017. A group of 21 men with premature ejaculation were given the wipes or a placebo to use before sex.
To be considered as part of the study, all men had to be:
Over the age of 18
Dealing with distress related to bedroom performance
Having issues with ejaculation before two minutes of stimulation
When the men had sex using the wipes, all men who were provided the treatment had improved ejaculation times of an average of over two minutes.
The men who took part in the study also saw added advantages, such as:
Greater sexual satisfaction
Less stress related to sex
Enhanced control over ejaculation
What can you expect?
Your next question is probably just how much of a performance enhancement you can expect with sex wipes.
You should see a nice improvement in your ability to hold back on ejaculation, but every man can have his own experience.
While the studies on these wipes are not well-established yet, the few studies that have been done offer a promising look at what to expect.
For example, in a study published in 2019, participants using benzocaine, and not a placebo, saw an average three-minute boost in ejaculation time.
After those same study participants used the wipes for two months, those time-to-ejaculation increases rose to an average of 5.5 minutes.
Of course, because every man's average time to ejaculation can differ, your experience may be unique.
How to Use Premature Ejaculation Sex Wipes
Sex wipes offer a convenient, easy-to-use, and proven premature ejaculation solution in a quick-and-simple, two-step application process.
Step 1. Use the wipe to apply the formula
Pull the wipe from its package or container—you will only need one wipe.
Rub the wipe across the parts of your penis that are the most sensitive to stimulation, such as under the head (eg; the frenulum) and the underside of the shaft.
Make sure you are leaving the skin moist with the formula.
Step 2. Wait for the formula to kick in
After you have moistened your skin using the wipe, take a minute to wash your hands to remove any residue you may have collected in the process.
Typically, you will feel the benzocaine start to take effect in a few minutes.
But, give the solution between 5 and 10 minutes to get fully absorbed into the skin of your penis.
Sex wipes are available through a limited number of adult toy retailers, but buying from the manufacturer is always the best option if at all possible.
To make sure you get the best wipes, be sure to:
Look at the active ingredients
Scout out some prior-user reviews
Buy from a reputable retailer
Some pharmacies may also offer sex wipes if you need something immediately. Of course, buying your sex wipes online ensures a discreet purchase.
How do Sex wipes work?
They work by using benzocaine to affect the sensitive nerves in your penis, which, by the way, may reach numbers as high as 6,000 or more depending on whether you are circumcised.
The benzocaine in the wipes block the signals received by your nervous system onced absorbed into the skin.
What do the wipes make your penis feel like?
Every man's experience will vary, but the general sensation change will go something like this:
You may feel initial warmth or tingling as the solution makes its way into your skin
You will feel your sensitivity levels start to wane
At about five minutes, you should feel like you are wearing a condom or have much lower sensitivity
How long will the benzocaine wipes last?
The general timeline is around half an hour, for the most part, but some men have reported still feeling some mild effects for up to 90 minutes.
Some other factors to consider:
Not every wipe is made with the same ingredients
Body chemistry can affect the outcome
Sexual activity is not always the same
Usually, you will recognize when the desensitization hits a prime point—possibly around 5 to 10 minutes—and then the sensations will slowly lessen until you have all your feelings back.
Will the desensitization transfer to your partner?
It would be difficult to close the orgasm gap if you desensitize your partner and your penis while using sex wipes.
So, be sure to use the wipes as directed, wait for the formula to absorb, and wash your hands after application.
These simple tips will mean little to no transference of the solution to your partner.
Once the topical anesthetic absorbs into your skin, the solution is less likely to escape through your skin and affect your partner's sensitivity levels.
Can you receive oral sex while using benzocaine sex wipes?
Generally, oral sex should be fine while using premature ejaculation wipes, but with a few caveats:
Allow the formula from the wipe to fully absorb into your skin
Give your penis a quick rinse-off and dry off with a towel
To ensure you are not giving your partner a mouth full of anesthetic during oral sex, you may want to wait the full recommended timeline for the product to absorb as well.
The Benefits of Premature Ejaculation Sex Wipes
So, why use premature ejaculation wipes before sex?
As noted by the research, sex wipes may offer a few noteworthy benefits that make them worthy of your attention.
Increased Performance
The orgasm gap between men and women where sex is concerned is a pretty big deal.
A study showed that ninety-five percent of heterosexual men have an orgasm during sex with a female, but females only climax between 50 and 70 percent of the time with a man.
With that being said, using sex wipes to lower sensitivity levels and last longer can obviously lead to a more fulfilling sexual experience for both parties involved.
You can enjoy the encounter for longer, she may have an increased chance of climaxing, and both of you get more satisfaction overall.
Confidence Boost
Many men face sexual performance anxiety that affects their overall performance, which means you may get caught up in a vicious cycle.
In fact, some studies have shown that performance anxiety can be a direct link to erectile dysfunction.
When you step into the big moment feeling like you can last long enough to please your partner, your confidence levels naturally climb.
In return, your partner may be even more attracted and aroused—confidence is a high-ranking trait women look for in a man.
What are the best sex wipes?
Sex wipes are available across the internet in all kinds of shapes and formulas.
However, for your own safety and to ensure you have the best experience, picking the best delay wipes is important.
Here are the top three premature ejaculation wipes.
Promescent Delay Wipes
Promescent, which is well-known for sexual wellness products for men, offers sex wipes for men.
These specially formulated wipes are made with a benzocaine solution, offer rapid absorption, and are perfectly packaged for discreet use as needed.
Promescent products have been recommended to men with problems with PE because of their quality and thousands of recommendations by healthcare professionals.
Playboy Climax Delay Wipes
Playboy Climax Delay Wipes are available through multiple online retailers.
These wipes are created with a benzocaine formula and come in a 4-count package.
Roman Swipes
Roman Swipes are individually packaged wipes made with a benzocaine solution.
While effective, Roman Swipes do require a subscription that includes a monthly commitment to an automated shipment.
Pro Tip: Check out our comprehensive Roman Swipes review to find out if these pre-treated sex wipes are right for you.
Risks and Side Effects of Sex Wipes
When used appropriately, benzocaine is considered to be safe for topical application.
While the risks are few and far between, we'll go over a few side effects of benzocaine to be mindful of when using sex wipes.
1. Issues with prolonged desensitization
In really rare cases if you use too much benzocaine in a short time frame, the wipes may cause prolonged desensitizing action.
If your penis feels low-sensitivity levels after 90 minutes when the product should start to wane, go ahead and do a thorough wash with soap and water.
Your sensations should return in a short time after.
2. Skin redness or irritation
Even though the issue is extremely rare, some men can have skin sensitivities to benzocaine, specifically with prolonged use.
Skin issues can show up as general redness or irritations, but also watch out for:
Pain, tenderness, or discomfort of the skin
Itching, stinging, or burning sensations
Flakiness or dryness after using the product
In the event, you spot any of these problems, be sure to discontinue using sex wipes.
If unpleasant sensations occur during use, simply wash your genitals with mild soap and water.
Final Words on Sex Wipes
Whether you have legitimate issues with premature ejaculation or just want to last longer in bed, sex wipes to lower sensitivity levels can be a nice addition to your game plan.
While many sex wipes are available, those formulated with benzocaine tend to be the best solutions.
Benzocaine wipes may not cure problems with early ejaculation, but scientific research is there to prove the wipes can enhance time to ejaculation.
Further, when you use these wipes in a recommended fashion, the risks of side effects are very low.
When you get your hands on the best sex wipes, you very well could see a close in the orgasm gap between you and your partner, and maybe even see a nice confidence boost in the process.
Dr. Yafi is Associate Professor of Urology, Chief of Men’s Health and Reconstructive Urology, Director of Men’s Health and Newport Urology at the University of California, Irvine. His practice specializes in men’s health, erectile dysfunction, hypogonadism, Peyronie’s disease, prosthetic surgery, male voiding dysfunction and male infertility. Dr. Yafi has over 150 peer-reviewed publications and book chapters. He is the current Chair of the SMSNA scientific committee and co-Chair of the ISSM Consultations and Guidelines committee. Dr. Yafi earned his medical degree from the American University of Beirut, then completed his internship in General Surgery at the Mayo Clinic, his residency in Urology at McGill University in Montreal, Quebec and his fellowship in Andrology, Sexual Medicine and Prosthetic Urology at Tulane University.
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