9 Best Sexy Valentine's Day Gifts (2024)

The right gift on Valentine's Day can mean a long night in the bedroom. Consider giving one of these sexy gifts to your partner this Valentine's Day.

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by The Promescent Team Last updated 01/31/2024




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With sexy Valentine's Day gifts, you can explore new kinks with your partner to feel closer together than ever before.

Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love and romance. While chocolate and roses may be a classic gift, there are other options that can really set the mood for an incredible night.

If shopping for the perfect present seems difficult, this guide will help you discover the best gifts for all tastes so you can enjoy a truly unforgettable evening!

Sexy Valentine's Day Gifts

All of the kinky toys and items on this list are body-safe and designed with the highest quality materials. You can confidently enjoy them with your partner.

Here are some of the best sexy Valentine’s Day gifts to get for your partner today!

1. Warming Female Arousal Gel

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The Warming Female Arousal Gel is an ideal Valentine’s Day gift that can enhance sensations throughout the night!

The gel adds a tingling and warming feeling to her most sensitive parts. It can help boost blood flow to the clitoris to increase arousal and pleasure.

Plus, some women may even enjoy more frequent orgasms with the help of this buzzing gel. A tiny drop of the product should be spread on the following parts: 

After about five minutes, the gel should take effect, leaving women with a unique and blissful experience.

This gel is hormone and paraben free to ensure body-safe pleasure. It can even be used safely by men on their most sensitive areas as well.

For a thoughtful and exciting gift, it's hard to go wrong with the Warming Female Arousal Gel!

2. Climax Control Spray

Desensitizing Delay Spray

Make every moment on Valentine’s Day last longer with this highly effective Desensitizing Spray for men!

Over-stimulation is one of the leading causes of PE. This delay spray can help temporarily desensitize the penis’ most sensitive areas to prevent premature ejaculation (PE) and provide increased stamina during intercourse.

The main ingredient is lidocaine, which has been shown to be both safe and effective. It works by slowing down the nerve response time in the skin. Men are able to last longer while still enjoying pleasurable sensations.

In studies, men have increased their time before ejaculation by an average of eight minutes with the use of lidocaine. 

Plus, most men reported greater satisfaction after intercourse for both them and their partners when using lidocaine. To use, simply follow these three simple steps:

  1. Spray three times onto the head and shaft of the penis.
  2. Wait between 5-15 minutes.
  3. Enjoy!

For a gift that makes both partners’ night better, the Delay Spray for PE is an excellent option.

3. Promescent Bullet Vibrator

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Expertly designed for discreet, yet powerful stimulation, the Promescent® Bullet Vibrator is ready to ignite passion this Valentine's Day.

It features 27 exhilarating play modes, each offering a unique path to pleasure. With a diverse set of vibration patterns and intensities levels, your partner will find what feels best for them.

Ideal for intimate moments, the bullet vibrator has a waterproof design that allows you to enjoy it anywhere you want to.

The convenience of its rechargeable feature makes it a ready companion for endless nights of pleasure. 

4. MYHIXEL Male Stamina Trainer

Premature ejaculation, or PE, affects over 30% of men worldwide. Whether it’s a constant struggle or an intermittent problem, it can cause a variety of negative health effects for men and their partners including:

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Guilt
  • Sexual dissatisfaction
  • Insecurity
  • And more

With the MYHIXEL Male Stamina Trainer, partners can gift their significant others a premium tool in the fight against PE.

Similar to the Fleshlight male masturbator, the MYHIXEL is designed to simulate a real vagina to help men last longer and increase their overall stamina.

Unlike traditional masturbators, the MYHIXEL comes with a number of unique features including:

  • An internal heating device to make the silicone sleeve feel more authentic
  • An internal vibrating device for stimulating pulsations
  • An included app to record stats, provide unique tips, and create a customized routine for curing PE

The MYHIXEL is also available in two separate models: one for those lasting under two minutes, and one for those lasting more than two minutes during intercourse.

Each device is designed to help men last up to 7x longer, making the MYHIXEL a pleasurable and beneficial Valentine’s Day gift for couples everywhere!

5. Promescent Rabbit Vibrator

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With 12 vibration patterns from mild to extreme, this gift can definitely create the experience of a lifetime this Valentine's Day.

The Promescent Rabbit Vibrator is designed for dual stimulation, targeting both the G-spot and clitoris simultaneously.

Partners can experience enhanced sensitivity and intense orgasms. The vibrator is also waterproof and has an adjustable fit for personalized comfort.

It's made from ultra-soft silicone, operates quietly, and offers up to 2 hours of runtime on a full charge.

6. Promescent Vibrating Penis Ring

Promescent Vibrating Penis Ring Package and Product

Stronger erections and clitoral stimulation is a recipe for an amazing Valentine's Day gift.

The Promescent vibrating penis ring helps men achieve better erections through trapping blood flow in the penis.

It features dual motors with nine vibration patterns and intensities, offering a variety of sensations. These vibrations stimulate the clitoris causing enhanced pleasure.

The vibrating penis ring's soft silicone also makes it a comfortable fit. It's quiet motor will ensure partners can enjoy a discreet intimate, encounter.

7. Organic Aloe Lube

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Lube is an often necessary addition in the bedroom. With Organic Aloe Lube, couples can enjoy a ph-balanced formula that’s both hydrating and satisfyingly slick for a truly premium feeling.

This product is both condom and toy compatible, making it the perfect add-on gift for all the toys on this list!

The deluxe lube is paraben and glycerin free, and it’s made from high-quality ingredients including:

  • Organic aloe
  • Hemp
  • Green tea
  • Oat extracts

Whether used with the toys on this list or simply on its own, this Organic Aloe Lube can make sexual pleasure even more enjoyable this Valentine’s Day!

8. Delay Wipes

Promescent Delay Wipes Package and Product

Similar to delay spray, delay wipes are designed to enhance endurance and prolong intimate moments.

They contain 7% benzocaine to temporarily reduce sensitivity, allowing for a more controlled and satisfying sexual experience.

Small enough to fit in your pocket, it's a more convenient option for when partners are on the go.

Delay wipes are also easier to use then delay spray. Simply apply the wipe on the most sensitive parts of the penis, and wait 5-10 minutes for it to fully absorb and start working.

Delay wipes will keep you ready at any moment to make the fun last long this Valentine's Day.

9. Magic Wand

As one of the most popular female massagers on the market, the Magic Wand remains the perfect Valentine’s Day gift that your partner is sure to love!

Featuring a soft silicone adjustable head and powerful settings, the Magic Wand is one of the best toys for delivering earth-shattering pleasure.

It has up to 6,300 RPM and multiple vibration patterns. The sensations can be customized from subtle to strikingly intense and everything in-between.

As a toy that’s perfect for solo play and couple’s exploration, the Magic Wand is a sexy Valentine's gift she’ll never forget!


These sexy Valentine’s Day gifts are a great way for partners to discover new pleasures. Couples can expand their sexuality in exciting and unexpected ways.

Plus, all of these gifts can be used together, even if it’s designed as a solo toy. With remote control settings, partners can take turns controlling the pleasure to make for a very spicy evening.

Whether couples want to try something completely new or want a luxurious version of a classic toy, these erotic Valentine’s Day gifts are designed to make the night a dream come true!

The Promescent Team

The Promescent Team

Our team has over a decade of experience in the sexual wellness field and are experts in sexual dysfunctions, like premature ejaculation. We help couples and individuals better understand treatment options available for different types of sexual needs and educate the public on all things related to intimacy. All of our authored content is medically reviewed for accuracy and reliability.


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