10 Best Sexy Valentine's Day Gifts (2023)

The right gift on Valentine's Day can mean a long night in the bedroom. Consider giving one of these sexy gifts to your partner this Valentine's Day.

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by The Promescent Team Last updated 01/20/2023

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With sexy Valentine's Day gifts, you can explore new kinks with your partner to feel closer together than ever before.

Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love and romance. While chocolate and roses may be a classic gift, there are other options that can really set the mood for an incredible night.

If shopping for the perfect present seems difficult, this guide will help you discover the best gifts for all tastes so you can enjoy a truly unforgettable evening!

Sexy Valentine's Day Gifts

All of the kinky toys and items on this list are body-safe and designed with the highest quality materials. You can confidently enjoy them with your partner.

Here are some of the best sexy Valentine’s Day gifts to get for your partner today!

1. Warming Female Arousal Gel

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The Warming Female Arousal Gel is an ideal Valentine’s Day gift that can enhance sensations throughout the night!

The gel adds a tingling and warming feeling to her most sensitive parts. It can help boost blood flow to the clitoris to increase arousal and pleasure.

Plus, some women may even enjoy more frequent orgasms with the help of this buzzing gel. A tiny drop of the product should be spread on the following parts: 

After about five minutes, the gel should take effect, leaving women with a unique and blissful experience.

This gel is hormone and paraben free to ensure body-safe pleasure. It can even be used safely by men on their most sensitive areas as well.

For a thoughtful and exciting gift, it's hard to go wrong with the Gel Calentador para la Excitación Femenina!

2. Delay Spray

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Make every moment on Valentine’s Day last longer with this highly effective Delay Spray for men!

Over-stimulation is one of the leading causes of PE. This delay spray can help temporarily desensitize the penis’ most sensitive areas to prevent premature ejaculation (PE) and provide increased stamina during intercourse.

The main ingredient is lidocaine, which has been shown to be both safe and effective. It works by slowing down the nerve response time in the skin. Men are able to last longer while still enjoying pleasurable sensations.

In studies, men have increased their time before ejaculation by an average of eight minutes with the use of lidocaine. 

Plus, most men reported greater satisfaction after intercourse for both them and their partners when using lidocaine. To use, simply follow these three simple steps:

  1. Spray three times onto the head and shaft of the penis.
  2. Wait between 5-15 minutes.
  3. Enjoy!

For a gift that makes both partners’ night better, the Delay Spray for PE is an excellent option.

3. Lorals for Pleasure & Comfort

Make her feel like a goddess with the unique and tantalizing Lorals for Pleasure & Comfort!

These sleek and sensual single-use panties are made with stretchy latex to provide new sensations along with a kinky look.

Made to be ultra-thin and with a faint but pleasant vanilla scent, these panties go beyond just being beautiful by allowing partners to:

  • Explore new sensations through the thin latex barrier
  • Enjoy light teasing and BDSM play
  • Tease and deny throughout the night
  • Try cunnilingus with a new twist
  • Explore rimming in a safe and beginner-friendly way.

However one chooses to use them, Lorals for Pleasure & Comfort are an exciting and unique erotic gift for this Valentine’s Day!

4. Premium Thin Condoms

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Condoms don’t have to feel like a chore. With Premium Ultra Thin Condoms, sex can be safely enjoyed without sacrificing pleasure!

Designed to provide a more natural feel, along with increased heat transference, these ultra-thin condoms provide incredible sensations with equally strong protection and safety.

Each condom also comes with a small amount of silky smooth lube on both sides to provide extra comfort and pleasure.

At 7 inches in length, most men can comfortably wear them without worries. Make your Valentine’s celebration a night to remember with these Premium Ultra Thin Condoms!

5. MYHIXEL Male Stamina Trainer

Premature ejaculation, or PE, affects over 30% of men worldwide. Whether it’s a constant struggle or an intermittent problem, it can cause a variety of negative health effects for men and their partners including:

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Guilt
  • Sexual dissatisfaction
  • Insecurity
  • And more

With the MYHIXEL Male Stamina Trainer, partners can gift their significant others a premium tool in the fight against PE.

Similar to the Fleshlight male masturbator, the MYHIXEL is designed to simulate a real vagina to help men last longer and increase their overall stamina.

Unlike traditional masturbators, the MYHIXEL comes with a number of unique features including:

  • An internal heating device to make the silicone sleeve feel more authentic
  • An internal vibrating device for stimulating pulsations
  • An included app to record stats, provide unique tips, and create a customized routine for curing PE

The MYHIXEL is also available in two separate models: one for those lasting under two minutes, and one for those lasting more than two minutes during intercourse.

Each device is designed to help men last up to 7x longer, making the MYHIXEL a pleasurable and beneficial Valentine’s Day gift for couples everywhere!

6. Chorus Couples Vibrator

The Chorus Couples Vibrator features a unique C-shape that can stimulate a woman’s clitoris and G-spot, and a man’s penis at the same time. It is an ingenious toy that will bring Valentine’s Day to delicious new heights!

The toy has an adjustable fit so it can be customized exactly to the partner's preference. It features over 10 vibration patterns with varying speeds and intensities.

Most interestingly, the Chorus also responds directly to pressure and touch. This means the more it's squeezed, the more intense the toy’s unique vibrations get to create a breathtaking feedback loop of pleasure.

The Chorus is both waterproof and body-safe since it's made from premium silicone. It can last up to 90 minutes after just one charge.

The Chorus vibrator can be controlled by the included remote or through the integrated app. It allows significant others to tease their partner effortlessly all throughout the night.

With a mind-blowing design and premium presentation, the Chorus Couples Vibrator is an excitingly erotic Valentine’s Day gift!

7. Lavender Massage Oil

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A tender massage can be the perfect sexy Valentine's Day gift. It can be made even better with a luxurious Lavender Massage Oil to sweeten the mood.

This sultry and smooth oil is perfect for creating an erotic and positive atmosphere well into the night. Another plus is that the lavender is responsibly sourced.

Lavender oil has been thought to increase relaxation and heighten the senses with its delicate floral aroma. With a silky texture that never feels sticky, partners can indulge in the senses and get lost completely in the moment.

This body-safe Lavender Massage Oil is both hydrating and rejuvenating. Its rich aroma will make a couple's Valentine’s Day extra luxurious and unforgettable!

8. Organic Aloe Lube

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Lube is an often necessary addition in the bedroom. With Organic Aloe Lube, couples can enjoy a ph-balanced formula that’s both hydrating and satisfyingly slick for a truly premium feeling.

This product is both condom and toy compatible, making it the perfect add-on gift for all the toys on this list!

The deluxe lube is paraben and glycerin free, and it’s made from high-quality ingredients including:

  • Organic aloe
  • Hemp
  • Green tea
  • Oat extracts

Whether used with the toys on this list or simply on its own, this Organic Aloe Lube can make sexual pleasure even more enjoyable this Valentine’s Day!

9. Vector Prostate Massager

Valentine’s Day can be a great time to try different things and explore your partner’s body in new and exciting ways. The Vector Prostate Massager can provide couples an incredible night of new experiences and unbeatable pleasure!

With a size that’s perfect for newcomers and experienced users alike, this massager features a unique shape that comfortably targets the prostate and perineum simultaneously.

Made with body-safe silicone, the item comes with 10 intensity settings that can be controlled with the included remote or integrated app.

With just the touch of a button, they can speed things up before slowing it back down. It can create an unforgettable evening of tease and denial.

Prostate massagers are a great way to help men experience new realms of pleasure. Make this Valentine’s Day better than ever with Vector’s deluxe prostate massager!

10. Magic Wand

As one of the most popular female massagers on the market, the Magic Wand remains the perfect Valentine’s Day gift that your partner is sure to love!

Featuring a soft silicone adjustable head and powerful settings, the Magic Wand is one of the best toys for delivering earth-shattering pleasure.

It has up to 6,300 RPM and multiple vibration patterns. The sensations can be customized from subtle to strikingly intense and everything in-between.

As a toy that’s perfect for solo play and couple’s exploration, the Magic Wand is a sexy Valentine's gift she’ll never forget!

Takeaways

These sexy Valentine’s Day gifts are a great way for partners to discover new pleasures. Couples can expand their sexuality in exciting and unexpected ways.

Plus, all of these gifts can be used together, even if it’s designed as a solo toy. With remote control settings, partners can take turns controlling the pleasure to make for a very spicy evening.

Whether couples want to try something completely new or want a luxurious version of a classic toy, these erotic Valentine’s Day gifts are designed to make the night a dream come true!

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